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Why Have We Fasted

Category: View From the Pews

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Posted on July 28, 2023August 10, 2023

Reason for Hope

Searching for healing in the midst of post traumatic church disorder.

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Posted on February 16, 2023

The Apple Doesn’t Fall Far From the Acts 29 Tree

The leaders of Origen Church kept the budget hidden until approaching financial insolvency forced their hands. What is Acts 29 trying to hide?

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Posted on January 27, 2023January 28, 2023

When the Good Go Bad

A re-post from The Wartburg Watch, telling our story of how spiritual abuse crept in to a church we’d considered safe.

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Posted on January 21, 2023January 21, 2023

Is It Gossip? and Other Questions We Asked Before Going Public

Questions we asked ourselves before going public. Is it gossip? Have we forgiven? Are we following Matthew 18?

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Posted on September 2, 2022

Acts 29, Your System is Rotting

A pattern is being established within the Acts 29 model at both the denominational and local church levels. It is not a good one, but it is also not insurmountable.

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Posted on June 17, 2022June 23, 2022

… And Their Manipulative Response

Demonstration of how an elder manipulated documented facts to avoid accountability for his actions. And how an associate and senior pastor remained silent in the face of his lies.

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Posted on June 10, 2022June 29, 2022

Our Resignation Letter to a Former Church…

Tracing unhealthy patterns in this local church and connecting the dots to unhealthy patterns documented at the organizations where leadership received training.

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Posted on May 6, 2022November 15, 2022

John Piper’s Advice for Exhausted New Moms

An actual mom evaluates John Piper’s advice for exhausted young mothers. While some advice is deemed actually helpful, the words “awkward,” “creepy,” and “negligent” all make an appearance in the evaluation.

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Posted on April 29, 2022January 28, 2023

Introducing “View from the Pews” – Part 2

An attempt to pierce the echo chamber of church leadership and the ivory tower of theologians by providing a view from an ordinary pew-sitter. Wrapping up with an article on spiritual abuse by Mike Cosper and one on orthopathy by Tish Harrison Warren.

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Posted on April 22, 2022June 23, 2022

Introducing “View from the Pews” – Part 1

An attempt to pierce the echo chamber of church leadership and the ivory tower of theologians by providing a view from an ordinary pew-sitter. Starting with some articles on church leadership by Glenn Packiam and Ike Miller, and a post by Tim Keller on megachurches.

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Posted on February 25, 2022June 22, 2022

A Reaction to Kevin DeYoung’s “Better Discussion”

Some thoughtful critique (interspersed with the occasional sassiness) of a recent article by Kevin DeYoung regarding abuse in the church context.

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